Safe sex

Safe sex is always better!

In my opinion, it's fun, and you don't have to worry as much!!

Sex Toys

Sex toys cover a broad spectrum of items that are designed to enhance physical pleasure. Because of the variety of items, it's hard to discuss them as a group. Note: we could include things like lingerie and flavored lubricants in this category, and the same considerations apply.

We see no scriptural prohibition on toys, nor any way in which toys violate any scriptural guidelines. In general this is going to be something each couple has to decide for themselves, but below are a few things to consider.

Some items may not be safe to use. For example, there are devices known as penile rings which are placed around the base of the penis to improve or maintain an erection. Most of these rings are safe, but a fixed ring that has no release could be very dangerous if it's too small.

It's also noted by most manufacturers that the rings should not be used for more than 30 minutes at a time. Vacuum devices and anything used to restrain a person also pose potential problems if they are not properly designed and used.

Some items designed to resemble parts of the male or female body are actually "modeled" after a real person, usually an actor or actress from pornographic movies. While it's not clear that this is a sin to use such a product, most Christians are opposed to it for obvious reasons. If an item is not advertised as being modeled after someone, it's just a generic sculpture.

If a sex toy is used, it should be as an enhancement, not the center of attention. If it brings the couple closer, and results in one or both of them enjoying sex more, that is good. If it results in either person feeling badly, that is not good.

The biggest obstacle to sex toys for most Christians is probably finding a way to buy them without being exposed to objectionable products and pornography.

In Europe some items are available in respectable shops, but in most of America this is not the case. Some lingerie shops may have small assortments of toys, but in general most Christian's choices are mail order and web shopping.

10 things that women hate in the bed

Do you think that you are a super lover? Do you have any reasons to think in such way?

Perhaps you know all sexual positions physically accessible for you and studied female erogenous zones.

You always carry with you usual and exotic condoms and batteries for your girl-friend’s favorite sex toy. You often present flowers. So, women, what do you need else?

Even the best lover makes mistakes in the bed which make the women doubt about if her lover attracts necessary attention to her.

In this post I will write about 10 the most frequent and disagreeable mistakes which men could make in the bed, according to “Askmen” magazine.

Take off socks, all the more boots

Forget all things which you have seen in porn films. Even if you are very fast in movements and it takes 5 minutes between first agitation in the blood and flounder in the bed with your girl-friend, you should see about taking off the socks. Female nose is very sensitive – take care of this delicate creature.
Don’t answer calls

Don’t try to answer calls during the sexual intercourse. According to statistics, 15% of men have already interrupted sex in order to answer the call. Switch it off before you start foreplay. Your mother calls you every 10 minutes? Then, switch off your robot as well. You don’t need a third person in the bed.

Don’t babble

Of course, women like beautiful male voices, but the bed isn’t a place to demonstrate your intellectual level. No tautological demagogies about variants of universe conception. Speak only about how she excites you and how well do you fill yourself with her.

Don’t look anywhere, except her

You shouldn’t watch anything else during the sexual intercourse, even your favorite sport programs. Switch off TV set to avoid temptation. It is better even to take it away from bedroom.
According to statistic the couples with TV set in their bedroom make sex 2 times less than couples who don’t have it.

Also don’t view pictures in magazines or your abdomen in the mirror. Look at her only, it means that you forget about everything in the world. Concentrate your attention on her soft skin, aroma of her hair, passion in her voice.

Don’t run saliva

Of course, the saliva can be used as a lubricant if there are some difficulties but in other situations – it is unacceptable.

Don’t fall asleep in 2 seconds after orgasm

Don’t fall asleep immediately after love making. Of course, there are physiological reasons why men feel sleepiness after act of love. After orgasm the level of glycogen in blood decreases. This substance feeds the muscles. The human feels himself broken when the glycogen isn’t sufficient in the body.

Women also feels desire to relax, but a little later than men. Help her in this, don’t fall asleep immediately, and wait some minutes in order to add some romantic moments in your relationship.

Forget about other women

Don’t you dare even to mention about sexual abilities of another woman. You are in the bed exactly with her, not with another one. Remember, when she takes off the pants, in this moment she is the only woman in the world for you.

Don’t transform sex in a comedy

You are funny and smart, but you shouldn’t make jokes during the sexual intercourse. Women, of course, have sense of humor, but you don’t have to simplify sexual relationship with super irony, lose it together with your clothes.

Don’t call “interesting” parts of her body with foolish names

It is better to speak plainly, without banality and immaturity. It isn’t necessary any “pi-pi”. She isn’t interested how you call your favorite part of the body when masturbate or joke with your friends.

But, she is not a baby who plays with you in “doctor” game. So, become adult before you will start to be engaged in it.

Don’t forget about your physiological differences

She isn’t an inflatable sex doll who supports easily 90 kg of live weight. She isn’t ready to make sex immediately. The woman’s body needs a defined stage of excitement in order to be ready to love making.

The beginning could be very emotional, but physiological, anyway, should be delicate, gradually and agreeable. Permit her to change sexual positions or suggest your own so that she feels her contribution in your cause.

Woman needs much time than a man to achieve an orgasm. Learn how to be delicate and patient. Learn how to control yourself till the moment when she will be ready to fly to the heaven with you.

Do you know what women need in the bedroom?

Kisses and tenderness

You shouldn’t look at woman like on object for sexual satisfaction.
Give her tenderness and affection; kiss her body from lips to legs, excite all her erogenous zones.

You will see how your woman will “open herself” in front of you, will respond to your impulse with reciprocal storm of hot affections.

Words and interjections

“Let say compliments each other, because they are beautiful moments of the love”.
“Women love with their ears” – this could be understood by every man and if his set of affections is scant, it’s necessary to fill it up immediately.

You can use following expressions for example: darling, beloved, unique, beauty, hot, astounding, amazing, sexual …

According to sexologists, a small percentage of women demand endearing words in the bed, most of women need shameless and denouncing words.

Sexual game

As the saying is only fire extinguisher works immediately. Woman needs to be warmed up!

Foreplay follows this purpose. The man in contrast to woman is able to stimulate himself immediately. He could only imagine a naked woman or turn over a proper journal.

The mechanism of woman’s excitement is more complicated and delicate. Some women can get excited because of your erotic story about her long legs, elastic breasts and remarkable buttocks.

Another part of them react on porn films with the participation of Rocco Sifredi, others get excited from male striptease performed by you, common look of fake picture of famous painters, prolonged and fantastic agreeable cunnilingus, common watch of erotic films.

As many women are as many versions of foreplays could be. Important is to find yours: first of all, find the women, and then corresponded sexual game for her.

Orgasm

“Ladies first” – English gentlemen say in such way. The subtext of this well-known expression is that the women should yell not only at the entry of own castle, but also to the orgasm approach. The ideal case is: when the male orgasm comes in the same time with female. In this moment common fly to the Nirvana takes place.

Well-known sexologist Roy Ascapa wrote: “Orgasm gives momentary oblivion to man and woman, takes them away from their “I”, it is like a small death with miraculous resurrection”.

Female orgasm doesn’t happen very often. The men should work hardly to satisfy their women. First of all, with the head, learning female anatomy and also with tongue, lips, fingers and so on.

Continuous and deep frictions are important for some women, for others – prolonged dying down when the partners are together and they don’t make any movements. Some women prefer horsewomen position with stimulation of clitoris and possibility to ride his partner till the final explosion.

Woman should understand what she likes, tactfully directing all her tools of influence to the necessary paths.

Sense of confidence to the partner, internal and external comfort, agreeable room design, semidarkness, soft light and gentle music – all these give some excitement to the partners.