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Tuesday, October 28, 2008

How to force him to put on a condom?




Sexual attraction is one of the driving forces in our life. The desire to have a good sex – is a natural desire for all of us. It could be as natural as the wish to keep off any unplanned pregnancy or diseases, sexually transmitted diseases.

Nowadays, there is only one method to instantly protect you from an unwanted pregnancy, from sexually transmitted diseases – it’s the condom.

The condom is preferred because it provides a huge protection for our health and it’s comfortable for people who have lived together for many years.

First of all, it isn’t a hundred percents of warranty that your beloved person isn’t a transmitter of an infection. The majority of infections could live quietly in the human’s body, not showing in any way. But then, they could be the source of impotency for men or sterility for women.

The fatally dangerous diseases, such as HIV, syphilis or hepatitis, have prolonged latent phase – from 3 months to 1 year. Even the examination of blood not always shows the virus presence in the latent stage. Your lover could be the transmitter without his knowledge.

Secondly, women that haven’t given birth to a child and who willing to give birth in the future, is contraindicated to use oral contraceptives, intrauterine devices and caps. All these contraceptives are dangerous to a lesser or greater extent. There is a big probability that their frequent usage may conduct to infertility or extra uterine pregnancy in general.

These arguments are very persuasive for women, but lots of men anyway refuse to use a condom during sexual intercourse. The refuses are referring to deficiency of feelings and excitement absence. Such men almost don’t use condoms at all, handling all problems to their partner in order to avoid unwanted consequences.

The probability is very high in case of these men – exactly they could have such diseases. The woman is obligated to take care of herself if the man looks after her health and her calmness.

Uppermost, she should use a condom.
So, how you should use a condom? You take out a pack of condoms Context in the moment of intimate caresses.

He: What is that?
She: A condom, my dear.
He: What for?
She: Because I want to put it on your penis
He: I can’t use condoms at all
She: Why?
He: because they bring down the pleasure
She: I can relax only with the condom on and when I’m relaxed, you will enjoy it…
He: We have never used condoms before
She: Because, before I couldn’t always relax until the end, not to say about relaxing at all…
He: Condom – is not totally agreeable
She: An unwanted pregnancy isn’t agreeable and HIV isn’t agreeable too.
He: Do you trust me?
She: I’m not talking about trust now. Often people don’t know about their maladies.
He: I will take it out in the right moment. I, as opposed to the rest of men, can control myself. I haven’t had yet any incidents where the woman became pregnant or infected with something after our intimate relationship
She: A woman could become pregnant, even if the man takes out his penis in the right time. The same way, it’s with diseases.
He: Condoms kill the romance
She: Most romantic in the relationship – to know that your lover is safe . Therewith, there are different kinds of condoms, for example Context, and when we will use a new condom we will be able to diversify our relationship
He: Making love with a condom – is all the same that taking a shower in a cloak
She: Making love without a condom – is all the same than playing a Russian roulette
He: ok, let’s use a condom next time
She: This once could be enough that there would be no more next time
He: Look, I love you very much
She: Then, protect your love

In such way, the arguments of your lover come to an end. You can calmly sleep with or without him.

In case that you aren’t sure in your lovers feelings and think that you can lose him, if you insist on using a condom, it’s better to take the chance with your lover then your health, in other case it could be even your life.

By the way, if your relationship is not serious there is a bigger probability to get venereal diseases from your partner.


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